I forgot to mention another O-fam tradition, started in the early days of my youth.
A few evenings before Christmas, my family would pile into the Ford Aerostar van, and we'd drive around town to look at the Christmas lights.
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| This picture was taken on my phone a couple of years ago on a drive around town with Mom and Brent. ISN'T IT AWESOME?! It's, like, a real-life gingerbread house! |
Now, I'm not going to name names, but...okay, yes I am. MY DAD was one of the fellas who didn't particularly love this tradition. (To each his own.) But he was a good sport, and he was typically the one in the driver's seat.
I honestly can't remember exactly when it happened, but one year (was I still in elementary school?), Dad was particularly unexcited about driving around to see the lights. He didn't really grumble much (or maybe he did?); what I remember distinctly about this time in particular is that Dad drove by each house at warp speed, and the lights seemed more like a blur of colors. There was absolutely NO slowing down to enjoy the lights, not this time. The entire trip (which took in a good portion of my hometown) took a total of something like 15 minutes--including loading all seven of us into and out of the van.
It was a total bummer.
And we haven't let Dad live it down ever since.
Anyway, last night as I was driving around looking at the lights, I called my folks at home--and who do you think answered, but my dear Dad!
I told him that I had a stellar idea: to drive around Brigham City the evening I get home for the holidays. And that I sweetly requested his presence. He told me, "I'll consider it," no less than five times.
Then he handed the phone to Mom; I asked her if he told her of my awesome plan (which he hadn't, probably because he's not excited about the idea. At all). But Mom likes my plan. And she heard Dad say (no less than five times!) that he'd consider it!
I think between the two of us, Mom and I can coerce Dad into coming with us.
And one of the girls will be driving; Dad will have to passengate (that's a word Mom came up with on the spot: a verb, meaning "the act of being a passenger." I get my brains from my Mama).
I'm still a little over a week out from heading on home for the holidays, and I've been excited about it since, roughly, the day after Thanksgiving.
And I'm kinda getting sentimental for our upcoming drive around town to see the lights this year...

6 comments:
My fam does this every year too! Hello...the Felts house! It was always the grand finale. Hey have you gone to see "lights at the bay" yet? You should. I like it a lot. It's out at Willard Bay and it's $5 a car load. Way fun.
You know, Vance uses the word "passenge" all the time in that exact context that mom defined it... and I haven't thought twice about it... I just think, "yeah, make sense!" I love family traditions. Dad is funny.
Yeah, you go ahead and take dad. I'll take dad's place sitting comfortably at home. I got a bit car sick a couple years back, and I've sworn it off. If only that Gingerbread House smelled like real gingerbread, it might make it all worth it.
We do the exact same thing only it's Christmas eve and when we got home it was PJ opening time. We would have a contest of who found the most Santas and who found the most nativity scenes. Winner got $1.
Our family does this too! and in Oklahoma there is a small city near us that puts up over a million lights...that has become a must see tradition as well!
Wow! Looks lovely. Great blog, girl.
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